About
Deceiving Is Believing was written by Robbie Williams and Guy Chambers and issued as a B-side to No Regrets in late 1998. The track captures Williams’s darker, introspective side, exploring deceit, guilt and emotional fatigue within a failing relationship. Its understated arrangement and slower tempo mark a contrast to the more anthemic tone of his singles from the same period.
The lyrics, including “I always have an alibi but tonight I have no conscience, I’ve learned to lie to you,” present a narrator caught between regret and resignation. Williams’s performance is restrained but emotive, revealing a vulnerability rarely foregrounded in his earlier recordings. Chambers’s production, built around muted guitars and atmospheric keyboards, mirrors the subdued tone of the lyrics.
While never performed live, the song contributes to the reflective thread running through Williams’s late-1990s work, where themes of fame, relationships and self-deception intertwined. Deceiving Is Believing shows Williams experimenting with a more confessional approach that would later resurface in songs such as Come Undone and Sexed Up.
I was learning that not every song had to be a statement. Sometimes it could just be honesty, even if it’s ugly.Robbie Williams
Lyrics
You allow me there
But tonight I have no conscience
So what comes after that
You're coming down already
This high won't see us through
Nothing I can change now
I've learnt to lie to you
What happened to me
What happened to you
You were pulling me on
I was leading you through
Lie to me
I always had a vision
That love would see us through
But what's the point in wishing
When my dreams depend on you
Gonna need support now
Your friends can gather round
And you can tell them stories
On how I let you down
What happened to me
What happened to you
You were pulling me on
I was leading you through
Lie to me
Deceiving is believing
Deceiving is believing
Deceiving is believing
Deceiving is believing
I'm much too young to be cynical
It's you that makes me miserable
Can you tell a lie through a smile
In bed we always deviate
And I'm the one who comes too late
These things hide inside of my mind, my mind
I always have an alibi
You allow me there
But tonight I have no conscience
So what comes after that
What happened to me
What happened to you
You were pulling me on
I was leading you through
Lie to me
Lie to me
Lie to me
Deceiving is believing
Believing
Believing
Believing
Believe
Credits
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Vocalist
Robbie Williams -
Songwriter
Robbie Williams, Guy Chambers