About
Don’t Say No was written by Robbie Williams and Stephen Duffy. It was first released in 2005 as a B-side to “Advertising Space” and later included on the compilation In and Out of Consciousness. Recorded during the sessions for Intensive Care, the song reflects the introspective and nostalgic tone that defined Williams’s collaboration with Duffy.
Driven by acoustic guitar, strings and layered harmonies, the track recalls the singer’s teenage years and early friendships. The opening line, “When we were only seventeen and thrown into society,” evokes both the excitement and the dislocation of entering fame at a young age. Williams revisits the theme of growing apart from the people who once knew him best, balancing self-awareness with a plea for understanding in the refrain “Do any of you still need me in your life, in your heart?”
Musically understated but emotionally candid, Don’t Say No captures the reflective quality that ran through much of Williams’s mid-2000s writing. Its melody and arrangement emphasise vulnerability over bravado, showing the songwriter at his most open and self-questioning.
Though not performed live, the song remains notable among his B-sides for its lyrical maturity and quiet emotional honesty, encapsulating the confessional spirit that shaped the Intensive Care era.
Lyrics
And thrown into society
That was the end of you and me
From what we could have been
And if we didn't keep in touch
I guess we didn't care that much
We never understood that stuff
But now I need you
I never meant to let you down
But letting you down was easy
Didn't it break your heart
Maybe I'm just too needy
Do any of you still need me
In your lives, in your heart
Don't say yes
Just to please me
If you're still you and you want
Don't say no
We fought together
Laughed together
Said things that we hoped were clever
The thought of missing you forever
Makes me want to cry
And now that you've grown up to be
A sentimental memory
Are you still you 'cos I'm still me
At least I hope so
A life beginning somewhere else
It was our time to die
Didn't it break your heart
Maybe I'm just too needy
Do any of you still need me
In your life, in your heart
Don't say yes
Just to please me
If you're still you and you want
Don't say no
So what do you know
Where do you go
Has it been fun
Oh did you survive being buried alive
Like I did
Didn't it break your heart
Maybe I'm just too needy
Do any of you still need me
In your life, in your heart
Don't say yes
Just to please me
If you're still you and you want
Don't say no
Credits
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Vocalist
Robbie Williams -
Songwriter
Robbie Williams, Stephen Duffy